By 2pm all I’ve done is have lunch

Actually, no, had a shower as well.  It was about time.  (I’m ashamed to say how long.)  I didn’t want to do it.  I didn’t want to get up even.  And, until I did get up, I wasn’t that fussed about lunch. Continue reading By 2pm all I’ve done is have lunch

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Festivities Then and Now, Post Divorce

Shortly before xmas I wrote a blog post for a divorce website where I spent a lot of time in the early years, venting and getting support.  I wanted to reassure people new to all the trauma that it does get better.   Continue reading Festivities Then and Now, Post Divorce

Disappointed When Not Disappointed

Grudges and grievances.  I have been reflecting rather unhappily on the sad recognition that sometimes (only sometimes!) when things don’t go as badly as expected, I am disappointed.  That strikes me as mad, but there is no avoiding the fact that it does happen. Continue reading Disappointed When Not Disappointed